To
forgive is divine!
Make the world a better place by learning the art of forgiveness,
writes ANTHEA TORR.
There
are not many people who don't have someone or something that they
feel either a strong or mild dislike for, or maybe it is just
be a faint residue of something that is sitting with us from an
incident long past, but that has not been TOTALLY forgiven or
forgotten.
It can even be something as fatuous as second hand news (gossip
- a ghastly pastime, quit it now), which has caused us to make
a judgement about a person. We have reiterated time and again,
in TAT, that we make our world's 100%, by our thoughts, feelings
and actions - so if you are a regular reader, this will not be
new.
Even
a very slight 'dislike' or uncomfortable feeling has an effect
on our earthly vehicles (physical, etheric, mental and emotional)
and our world at large, and needs to be cleared out before we
can really move on.
The
more intense the feeling, the greater the impact on our lives.
It sits in our bodies and causes disease and distress in some
form or another, and that same "dross" goes out into the morphogenic
field - WITH OUR MAGNETIC STAMP ON IT - expanding on its journey
back to us, creating the havoc so prevalent on our planet, as
it is discordant, and discordant energy does not disappear. It
is real and magnetic - like attracts like - it affects the weather
patterns and other living things on our planet.
The
elemental life that creates the "form" here on earth, with the
help of mankind and the angelic realms, are now taking on the
rebellious energy and hence the intense chaotic weather and eruptions
worldwide. If you are a "greenie" and concerned with environmental
preservation, look at your inner world too, as the peace we create
in our inner world is more powerful than all the recycling, getting
off the grid or other good deeds (not that we should not do them).
It is what CREATES the peace in our world, and it will reflect
in our weather and all the things in our outer world.
There
is no denying the fact that sitting with anger, resentment, unforgiveness,
blame and all the lower energies is not pleasant for anyone -
least of all ourselves! Especially when we KNOW that these thoughts
and feelings have a real and lasting affect on our lives and those
around us. Remembering that the more intense the feeling the greater
the lessons that are going to be coming our way. So doesn't it
make COMPLETE sense to just get over ourselves and learn the simple,
exquisite, divine art of 'forgiveness'? And don't be half-hearted
- REALLY go it - forgive those that you think have done something
to you that has been upsetting - no matter how bad! And don't
forget above all things to forgive YOURSELF first! If we have
done something that we are ashamed of, don't sit with it - forgive
yourself and try not to do it again. It may not happen over night,
but stick at it and that exquisite blissful feeling of peace and
freedom will come, it always does. It is one of the MOST liberating
emotions and expressions we have, and if coupled with real and
deep gratitude - we are on the road to massive changes in our
world and peace, health and lasting happiness will reflect in
our outer world as it becomes our inner world. It may help to
sit with pen and paper and write down those whom we feel need
our divine forgiving attention. But a word of warning - don't
FOCUS on the thing that needs to be forgiven - as to focus on
something magnetises it - just blankly put it down and think only
loving and kindly thoughts towards that person or situation that
has been causing the distress in your life. A great help is to
realise, whether you believe it or not, that the incident was
something that we ourselves brought about to learn from and become
master of, and this may not have been in this life time, it could
have come with us from other life times. We will attract the same
life-streams into our world that we have unresolved issues with.
Nothing goes unnoticed in the universe.
The beauty of this is that we know how we feel when we are sitting
with unresolved 'stuff', it is horrible, so simply - DROP IT!
We don't need years of therapy, trying to figure out how, why
or what made them do what ever they did, and why we are feeling
this way or that - sometimes it even makes it worse as we focus
on it over and over - we just need to learn the art of genuine
and real forgiveness, and it can be instantaneous if we are really
evolved! We are not in the shoes of the other person, so we don't
know how or why they work the way they do - and quite frankly
it has nothing to do with us - ALL we need to focus on is how
WE are behaving and feeling. So we may live or work with someone
that is difficult or irks us, or maybe our partner has gone off
with the next door neighbour or we had something taken from us
and we say to ourselves, "I cant let that one get away with it
- I have to have my revenge", the truth is WE DON'T! We are not
here to sit in judgement of anybody ever, and if we do, only we
suffer in the end. We can decide weather we want the situation
in our lives again or not, and the only way to keep it out is
to train OURSELVES to become the master over it, and not to react
- as soon as we stop the reaction, it is GONE!
We
live in a world where all energy has to be balanced out, so there
may be a little sadness or distress, but that to can be mitigated
with a positive shift in our thinking. So dwelling on the negative
past is a waste of time and divine energy - of which we will have
to account for - here is our chance to become the master, so be
thankful to the bearer of the gift - even if at the time it may
seem unbearably painful - it will pass and a better door will
be there to open - all we have to do is make sure we are there
to open it - if we are too busy feeling sorry for ourselves or
wallowing in the sickness anger and resentment, we may miss the
opportunity! In the moment, if we have the grace and sweetness
in us, we can apologise for something said or done amiss, a phone
call or meeting goes a long way too - but remember - be the master,
don't let the past surface again - just see the 'Face of God'
in EVERYONE - as it is there, and don't let up. If the other chooses
not to accept our apology, it is not our business, it is theirs'.
We can also use the all-powerful spiritual tools we have available
to us. By just sitting quietly and bringing the person or situation
into our consciousness, calling in the help from the Angelic and
Ascended realm, and going into our heart and FEELING that wonderful
and exquisite feeling of forgiveness surface is a great step forward.
Keep doing this until there is NOTHING left and we have truly
moved on and no residue is left. Imagine if everyone on earth
did this - imagine the beauty and perfection that would surround
us. We can even take it a step further, we can forgive corporations
and governments and all the things in our lives that are upsetting.
This feeling of forgiveness is contagious so start today and help
lift up those around you - there is not ONE REASON on earth not
to - and don't give up ever. We need to do our very best not to
create the same situation again - learn from mistakes and practice
and practice the art of mastering our thoughts and feelings -
we ALL have to eventually so better start now!
It is what CREATES the peace in our world, and it will reflect
in our weather and all the things in our outer world.
There
is no denying the fact that sitting with anger, resentment, unforgiveness,
blame and all the lower energies is not pleasant for anyone -
least of all ourselves! Especially when we KNOW that these thoughts
and feelings have a real and lasting affect on our lives and those
around us. Remembering that the more intense the feeling the greater
the lessons that are going to be coming our way. So doesn't it
make COMPLETE sense to just get over ourselves and learn the simple,
exquisite, divine art of 'forgiveness'? And don't be half-hearted
- REALLY go it - forgive those that you think have done something
to you that has been upsetting - no matter how bad! And don't
forget above all things to forgive YOURSELF first! If we have
done something that we are ashamed of, don't sit with it - forgive
yourself and try not to do it again. It may not happen over night,
but stick at it and that exquisite blissful feeling of peace and
freedom will come, it always does. It is one of the MOST liberating
emotions and expressions we have, and if coupled with real and
deep gratitude - we are on the road to massive changes in our
world and peace, health and lasting happiness will reflect in
our outer world as it becomes our inner world. It may help to
sit with pen and paper and write down those whom we feel need
our divine forgiving attention. But a word of warning - don't
FOCUS on the thing that needs to be forgiven - as to focus on
something magnetises it - just blankly put it down and think only
loving and kindly thoughts towards that person or situation that
has been causing the distress in your life. A great help is to
realise, whether you believe it or not, that the incident was
something that we ourselves brought about to learn from and become
master of, and this may not have been in this life time, it could
have come with us from other life times. We will attract the same
life-streams into our world that we have unresolved issues with.
Nothing goes unnoticed in the universe.
The beauty of this is that we know how we feel when we are sitting
with unresolved 'stuff', it is horrible, so simply - DROP IT!
We don't need years of therapy, trying to figure out how, why
or what made them do what ever they did, and why we are feeling
this way or that - sometimes it even makes it worse as we focus
on it over and over - we just need to learn the art of genuine
and real forgiveness, and it can be instantaneous if we are really
evolved! We are not in the shoes of the other person, so we don't
know how or why they work the way they do - and quite frankly
it has nothing to do with us - ALL we need to focus on is how
WE are behaving and feeling. So we may live or work with someone
that is difficult or irks us, or maybe our partner has gone off
with the next door neighbour or we had something taken from us
and we say to ourselves, "I cant let that one get away with it
- I have to have my revenge", the truth is WE DON'T! We are not
here to sit in judgement of anybody ever, and if we do, only we
suffer in the end. We can decide weather we want the situation
in our lives again or not, and the only way to keep it out is
to train OURSELVES to become the master over it, and not to react
- as soon as we stop the reaction, it is GONE!
We live in a world where all energy has to be balanced out, so
there may be a little sadness or distress, but that to can be
mitigated with a positive shift in our thinking. So dwelling on
the negative past is a waste of time and divine energy - of which
we will have to account for - here is our chance to become the
master, so be thankful to the bearer of the gift - even if at
the time it may seem unbearably painful - it will pass and a better
door will be there to open - all we have to do is make sure we
are there to open it - if we are too busy feeling sorry for ourselves
or wallowing in the sickness anger and resentment, we may miss
the opportunity!
In the moment, if we have the grace and sweetness in us, we can
apologise for something said or done amiss, a phone call or meeting
goes a long way too - but remember - be the master, don't let
the past surface again - just see the 'Face of God' in EVERYONE
- as it is there, and don't let up. If the other chooses not to
accept our apology, it is not our business, it is theirs'. We
can also use the all-powerful spiritual tools we have available
to us. By just sitting quietly and bringing the person or situation
into our consciousness, calling in the help from the Angelic and
Ascended realm, and going into our heart and FEELING that wonderful
and exquisite feeling of forgiveness surface is a great step forward.
Keep doing this until there is NOTHING left and we have truly
moved on and no residue is left. Imagine if everyone on earth
did this - imagine the beauty and perfection that would surround
us. We can even take it a step further, we can forgive corporations
and governments and all the things in our lives that are upsetting.
This feeling of forgiveness is contagious so start today and help
lift up those around you - there is not ONE REASON on earth not
to - and don't give up ever. We need to do our very best not to
create the same situation again - learn from mistakes and practice
and practice the art of mastering our thoughts and feelings -
we ALL have to eventually so better start now!
